Hello and welcome to Healthcare Magic. Thanks for your query. Passsing drops of urine or fluid when straining to pass stools is normal. Similarly, ejaculation during masturbation is also normal. Masturbation is considered as a normal part of human sexual behaviour and it does not result in any sexual disorders. If you are having premature ejaculation, then to increase the ejaculation time, you can try practicing certain exercises like Kegel s exercises or techniques like the Masters and Johnson technique. Alternatively, there are medication available which can help delay ejaculation time. You have also mentioned a problem with erestion. This can be due to different causes - medical and psychological. I would suggest that you consult a sexologist for a detailed evaluation and further management. Wish you all the best. Regards, Dr. Jonas Sundarakumar MBBS., DPM., MRCPsych.(U.K.) Consultant Psychiatrist