Dear User, Thanks for using Healthcare Magic. You are right in saying that pulling out method is very bad idea in prevention of pregnancy, The preseminal fluid released before orgasm have enough sperm to make someone pregnant. It also prevents you and your partner from enjoying sex to the full extent. For the first timers like you I will recommend you to use condom. That will be efficient way to prevent pregnancy. It is safe and devoid of any side effect. The only problem that can occur with use of condom is allergic reaction. So it is better to read the information leaflet before using it first time. If you find any difficulty in using condom write back to me. I will be happy to assist you. Thanks