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How To Control The Short Temperedness Of A Person?
doctor i am a 22 years male. i am doing my graduation in business management. i am a complete short tempered person and also straight forward. i get angry soon. i feel disappointed for silly things. my problem is, my parents love me a lot....... i too love them... but they havent tried to understand me.... they get me more than what i asked them. but dint give me what i asked.... this is making me really uncomfortable. i said them that i am 22 years old and let me do my works by my own. but they wont let me do that....this makes me feel that i am unfit and makes my confidence lose. and looking at my friends doing there works by there own i feel more tensed.... from last three weeks thinking of this i am not even able to sleep... i asked my love( my parents know her and her family and also knows that i am in love with her) that something is wrong wit me. she tried making me relaxed. but no use of it.. then she said me to check out at Health care magic... thats the reson why i am writing you about my problems. please doctor, help me out.
Mon, 14 Jul 2014
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Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns
I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. You are just 22. A 22 year young short tempered / emotional person is quite a normal statistics. Nothing to worry in your character. But regarding your parents, instead of pointing your fingers towards your parents, you should think several times. They are fond of you, love you, are passionate about you, they never can do any harm to you. Their behavior may be irritating, but they are genuine.
I also understand your concerns. Parents should respect their children's abilities. Especially when they grow up. A good psychological counselor should talk to your parents regarding this and make them understand. Such a step should work.
If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques which should help you further.
Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns
I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. You are just 22. A 22 year young short tempered / emotional person is quite a normal statistics. Nothing to worry in your character. But regarding your parents, instead of pointing your fingers towards your parents, you should think several times. They are fond of you, love you, are passionate about you, they never can do any harm to you. Their behavior may be irritating, but they are genuine.
I also understand your concerns. Parents should respect their children's abilities. Especially when they grow up. A good psychological counselor should talk to your parents regarding this and make them understand. Such a step should work.
If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques which should help you further.
Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
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Hi,
I went through your query and can understand your concern regarding your symptoms. Your symptoms are suggestive of depression and anxiety. Feeling irritable, having low self confidence, decreased sleep, feeling tensed can all occur as part of depressive syndrome.
I would suggest that you seek a psychiatric consultation for you problems. Treatment with anti-depressants like escitalopram will be highly effective. In addition, I would also suggest something like family therapy which should involve you and both your parents, It will help both you and your parents understand each other better, communicate well and adjust to the demands of each other.
Hope that the information provided was helpful. Best wishes.
I went through your query and can understand your concern regarding your symptoms. Your symptoms are suggestive of depression and anxiety. Feeling irritable, having low self confidence, decreased sleep, feeling tensed can all occur as part of depressive syndrome.
I would suggest that you seek a psychiatric consultation for you problems. Treatment with anti-depressants like escitalopram will be highly effective. In addition, I would also suggest something like family therapy which should involve you and both your parents, It will help both you and your parents understand each other better, communicate well and adjust to the demands of each other.
Hope that the information provided was helpful. Best wishes.
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