Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. You did not mention your son s age. Therefore judging him correctly may not be possible for me. Adolescent son do create such situations at home and normally they are short tempered. That is because of their confusion. They experience role onflict, gender conflict, puberty period conflict, peer conflict and numerous other conflict. If your son is aged around 5 to 12, then the behavior could be attiributed to hyperactivity or temper tantrums. Both these needs psychologist intervention. Unerstanding your son is neessary here. Once you understand him you can t loose your contol. Moereover, you are not the person who needs contol. It is him. Post a direct question to me with all his detail in this website and I shall prescribe some psychotherpy techniques to overcome temper tantrums. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.