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Hi doctor, I was married six months back . Till now I did not have sex with my wife. while doing sex my pennis is not standing for more time (more time in the sense , during intercourse) I have observed this. This is making me feel very embarassed . Please suggest me a solution for this . Its being very difficult for me to participate in the intercourse. Are there any medicine so that intercourse can happen very smoothly without any difficulty. Please help me .
Do not worry. Premature ejaculation and inadequate erection are common among newly weds.
Anxiety is the most common cause for premature ejaculation and inadequate erection. It is the anxiety about whether you can satisfy your spouse or not , that causes premature ejaculation.
Sometimes people tend to get over anxious and too much evoked and tend to ejaculate faster. Using Anxiolytics like alprazolam can help you but they are supposed to be taken only by prescription of a doctor. I don't think you require any medicines.
Just stop worrying and say to yourself that you are normal. Every thing would be fine. Dont rush things while having sex. Do it slowly and sensually especially with out any anxiety, so that you can enjoy your married life to the fullest.
Take care
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Erectile Dysfunction During Intercourse
Hi, Welcome to Health Care Magic. Do not worry. Premature ejaculation and inadequate erection are common among newly weds. Anxiety is the most common cause for premature ejaculation and inadequate erection. It is the anxiety about whether you can satisfy your spouse or not , that causes premature ejaculation. Sometimes people tend to get over anxious and too much evoked and tend to ejaculate faster. Using Anxiolytics like alprazolam can help you but they are supposed to be taken only by prescription of a doctor. I don t think you require any medicines. Just stop worrying and say to yourself that you are normal. Every thing would be fine. Dont rush things while having sex. Do it slowly and sensually especially with out any anxiety, so that you can enjoy your married life to the fullest. Take care