Dear user, Thank you for writing to HCM. I understand your concern. Masturbation in private or with a partner is a normal and healthy part of sexual enjoyment. There is no such thing as excessive masturbation or lot of masturbation. Weakness is due to anxiety about perceived excessive masturbation and its effects. Don t worry. Masturbation itself is harmless and itself does not cause weakness. You can gain ejaculatory control over a period of time by practicing following methods. 1. Stop-start technique of behavior therapy. 2. Female on top with active role. 3. Double condom 4. Medicines like Fluoxetine 20 mg day or Paroxetine CR 25 mg per day. (To be taken under medical supervision only) 5. Pelvic muscle strengthening exercise. (Kegel s exercise). You can read on internet. 6. Penile squeeze technique applied at the point of ejaculatory inevitability. 7. Applying a local anesthetic ointment to glans penis prior to penetration. 8. You should do masturbation before sex (at least 2 hours before). It will make seminal vesicles somewhat empty. So, at the time of sex, semen will take more time to come out. Practice above behavior method regularly with your partner. Discuss this freely with your partner without shame or guilt. Her co operation will help you a lot. I cannot comment on Hakeem or homeopathic medicines because I have no experience with them. There is no strong evidence for these medicines for premature ejaculation. You can consult sex therapist/counselor/ psychiatrist for this. Please feel free to ask if you have any doubts or follow up questions. Wish you good health.