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I Am 84 - Wife Is 82. We Have Sex
Question: i am 84 - wife is 82. we have sex two times per week. she enjoys it more than ever. When she has her organsims, from two to fives times each time we have sex, her vagina become very hot, so hot that I have to withdraw. What causes this?
Brief Answer:
probably due to vaginal dryness, recommended using lubricants
Detailed Answer:
Hello and welcome to "Ask a doctor" service.
I understand your concern.
I recommend your wife uses a lubricant prior to intercourse which would avoid friction hence such excessive hotness.
I hope this answers your question.
Let me know if I can assist you further.
Take care.
probably due to vaginal dryness, recommended using lubricants
Detailed Answer:
Hello and welcome to "Ask a doctor" service.
I understand your concern.
I recommend your wife uses a lubricant prior to intercourse which would avoid friction hence such excessive hotness.
I hope this answers your question.
Let me know if I can assist you further.
Take care.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Arnab Banerjee
We use lots of lubricants - lots of lubricants. That's the major reason that she is enjoying sex so much.
Brief Answer:
Possible allergy to lubricants
Detailed Answer:
The overheating maybe due to a possible allergic reaction to lubricants. What kind do you use? Do you use one kind or more? Please mention the names. How long does the overheating last?
Possible allergy to lubricants
Detailed Answer:
The overheating maybe due to a possible allergic reaction to lubricants. What kind do you use? Do you use one kind or more? Please mention the names. How long does the overheating last?
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Raju A.T
We have used astroglide
and astroglide strawberry for quite a long time. Over heating does not occur with every time we have sex. I lasts for a short period of time. If we continue, and I reenter my wife, the overheating is not apparent to me. The heat that I feel on occasion, is not felt by my wife. At my age, 84, I do not have an orgasm every time. I will have an organsim about 30 % of the time. I feel the this is one of the reasons that I can give her multiple orgasms. She now is often the one who initiates our love making, and wants to continue for more organisms. Wlso, Recently, the tip of my penis has become sensitive and somewhat irritated.
Any suggestions?
and astroglide strawberry for quite a long time. Over heating does not occur with every time we have sex. I lasts for a short period of time. If we continue, and I reenter my wife, the overheating is not apparent to me. The heat that I feel on occasion, is not felt by my wife. At my age, 84, I do not have an orgasm every time. I will have an organsim about 30 % of the time. I feel the this is one of the reasons that I can give her multiple orgasms. She now is often the one who initiates our love making, and wants to continue for more organisms. Wlso, Recently, the tip of my penis has become sensitive and somewhat irritated.
Any suggestions?
Brief Answer:
Possible irritation caused by parabens in the lubricant
Detailed Answer:
After carefully reading the information you have provided, I can only think of two possible factors causing the overheating: Prolonged friction during intercourse and irritation caused by Methylparaben, which is a chemical contained in Astroglide and which is known to cause irritation in some people.
I suggest you switch to a different type of lubricant for the time being, one that does not contain parabens, and see if overheating occurs. If there is no change, then reducing the time of intercourse can be a definitive solution.
I hope this helps. Let me know if I can assist you further.
Take care.
Possible irritation caused by parabens in the lubricant
Detailed Answer:
After carefully reading the information you have provided, I can only think of two possible factors causing the overheating: Prolonged friction during intercourse and irritation caused by Methylparaben, which is a chemical contained in Astroglide and which is known to cause irritation in some people.
I suggest you switch to a different type of lubricant for the time being, one that does not contain parabens, and see if overheating occurs. If there is no change, then reducing the time of intercourse can be a definitive solution.
I hope this helps. Let me know if I can assist you further.
Take care.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Yogesh D
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