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Suggest Treatment For Premature Ejaculation
Question: HI doctor
my age is 28 and I have a girl friend.
At time of sex my sperms releases very soonn. after that im unable to go for sex second time. and I have very less feelings and I usually gets diverted
my age is 28 and I have a girl friend.
At time of sex my sperms releases very soonn. after that im unable to go for sex second time. and I have very less feelings and I usually gets diverted
Brief Answer:
Keep away the anxiety / haste / guilt away
Detailed Answer:
Hi.
Thanks for your query.
The problem you have is called pre-mature ejaculation.
The most important reason for early release of sperms- semen is usually psychological. If the place / situation/ time is not correct there can be early release due to fear or anxiety or guilt.
You have only said that you very less feelings and you get diverted. This it self is another reason for pre-mature ejaculation.
Once the release or ejaculation has occurred, it takes sometime for anyone to get ready for the next sexual act.
The solution may be ::
You have to get a proper place, time and moods to have a safe sex. Once you get fully involved into it, then only it is possible to have proper sex and have proper length of time to have a long sexual act.
It is necessary that your anxiety level is zero, the feelings have to be complete involvement to the extent that there is no diversion of mind, there should be no guilt. You friend too is fully relaxed , understand you and your problem well and soothes you, comforts you, have full confidence in you; takes time to teach you to be slow and fully involved in sex only. It is better to have good time to have a foreplay, meaning you have to be with each other, hug, kiss, lay side by side before actually having sex. This also helps you to perform well, better than before.
Once you have a lengthy act , you will get confidence to improve your performance every time. Do not be in a haste, go slow, understand every aspect of being a good friend and not just a sex-satisfying person.
There will be an automatic improvement.
You do not need any medicines at the moment and try to avoid any medicines.
May I know please the details of the problems you are facing like a proper place or so? Any ear / anxiety / guilt ?
Please read the above answer again and slowly to understand and follow the advise properly; you may please ask for more if you want further clarification or if you want to give any feedback. Feel free, relaxed and ask ...
Keep away the anxiety / haste / guilt away
Detailed Answer:
Hi.
Thanks for your query.
The problem you have is called pre-mature ejaculation.
The most important reason for early release of sperms- semen is usually psychological. If the place / situation/ time is not correct there can be early release due to fear or anxiety or guilt.
You have only said that you very less feelings and you get diverted. This it self is another reason for pre-mature ejaculation.
Once the release or ejaculation has occurred, it takes sometime for anyone to get ready for the next sexual act.
The solution may be ::
You have to get a proper place, time and moods to have a safe sex. Once you get fully involved into it, then only it is possible to have proper sex and have proper length of time to have a long sexual act.
It is necessary that your anxiety level is zero, the feelings have to be complete involvement to the extent that there is no diversion of mind, there should be no guilt. You friend too is fully relaxed , understand you and your problem well and soothes you, comforts you, have full confidence in you; takes time to teach you to be slow and fully involved in sex only. It is better to have good time to have a foreplay, meaning you have to be with each other, hug, kiss, lay side by side before actually having sex. This also helps you to perform well, better than before.
Once you have a lengthy act , you will get confidence to improve your performance every time. Do not be in a haste, go slow, understand every aspect of being a good friend and not just a sex-satisfying person.
There will be an automatic improvement.
You do not need any medicines at the moment and try to avoid any medicines.
May I know please the details of the problems you are facing like a proper place or so? Any ear / anxiety / guilt ?
Please read the above answer again and slowly to understand and follow the advise properly; you may please ask for more if you want further clarification or if you want to give any feedback. Feel free, relaxed and ask ...
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Dr. Ashwin Bhandari
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