Brief Answer:
Only during intercourse or even with masturbation.

Detailed Answer:
Hi XXXX,
Thanks for writing in to us.

I have read through your query in detail.
Please let me know if your penis gets hard during masturbation and if it is not getting hard only during intercourse.

If your penis never gets hard, not even during masturbation then it can be related to the blood supply of penis and a penis Doppler test is required.

Should it get hard during masturbation and not able to maintain erection during intercourse then it is due to performance related anxiety. This needs to be dealt with by having a long fore play and trying to remain stress free during intercourse. Foreplay can be enhanced by emotional talking and using lubrication jelly.and mutual masturbation

Please reply saying in detail which situation describes your problem and we can discuss in detail the methods which can help you.

Hope this answers your question. Please feel free to correct any oversight in my interpretation of your problems and discuss them in detail as per your requirements.

Hope your query is answered.
Do write back if you have any doubts.

Regards,
Dr.Vivek

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Brief Answer:
Pls use KYjelly as lubricant and focus on foreplay

Detailed Answer:
Hi XXXX,
Thanks for writing back with an update.

From your query it is likely that you have performance related anxiety. This is seen in many young men and following steps can be taken to reduce it.
1. Tell your partner about it and engage in sexual and emotional talk.
2. Use KY jelly which is available at most pharmacy shops and have a long and slow foreplay session and this can include mutual masturbation.
3. Keep yourself relaxed during sex and stop thinking about any other things and focus on your partner.

Hope your query is answered.
Do write back if you have any doubts.

Regards,
Dr.Vivek

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