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Sexually Active Couple After Having First Baby 5 Years Back Now Trying To But From Last 1 Month But She Is Not Conceiving With Many Reasons Could Please Advise What To Do?
Question: Sir
I am 36 year old male.I have one son 5 yrs old .We want another baby . Actually after birth of 1st baby I was got puzzled as no body was in my family to extend support for taking care of baby.So I thought to have some time gap for next issue.But now we are ready for next baby.bur my wife is suffering from high BP & taking medicine that can be taken during pregnancy.
But now I am doing sex with no protection from last 1 month but she is not conceiving.
Recently we consulted Gynocologosit who given fervwet-5 & checked & told to have sex in another 5 days.
But I could not do due to stress in office work & not having mood .I done sex but ejaculation could not be done due to not for play.
Please advise to succeed in getting 2nd baby.
1)Any sexual desire enchancement safe medicine may be taken
2) sperm count safe medicine although I have not checked before.1 child & 2 miscarriage happened.
3) how to easily conceive as it was so easy when I was 28 years old.
Issue in my wife
1) 33 yrs old
2) 85 kg weight with 5.2'.
3) BP medicine & anxious that she would not get 2nd baby.
I am 36 year old male.I have one son 5 yrs old .We want another baby . Actually after birth of 1st baby I was got puzzled as no body was in my family to extend support for taking care of baby.So I thought to have some time gap for next issue.But now we are ready for next baby.bur my wife is suffering from high BP & taking medicine that can be taken during pregnancy.
But now I am doing sex with no protection from last 1 month but she is not conceiving.
Recently we consulted Gynocologosit who given fervwet-5 & checked & told to have sex in another 5 days.
But I could not do due to stress in office work & not having mood .I done sex but ejaculation could not be done due to not for play.
Please advise to succeed in getting 2nd baby.
1)Any sexual desire enchancement safe medicine may be taken
2) sperm count safe medicine although I have not checked before.1 child & 2 miscarriage happened.
3) how to easily conceive as it was so easy when I was 28 years old.
Issue in my wife
1) 33 yrs old
2) 85 kg weight with 5.2'.
3) BP medicine & anxious that she would not get 2nd baby.
Brief Answer:
Regarding sexual drive and erectile dysfunction
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Stress and anxiety from the strain of daily life and relationships can negatively affect sexual desire. It is a very common cause. Besides that certain medical conditions like obesity, diabetes, raised blood pressure, depression, low testosterone levels etc can adversely affect one's sexual drive too. Alcohol, can negatively affect libido as do certain drugs like antidepressants, medications for hair fall etc. These factors have to be ruled out by appropriate history and lab tests. Healthier lifestyle measures in the form of healthy diet, regular 6-8 hours of sleep, exercise etc is helpful in restoring libido. May be taking a break from work and going for a holiday may also help. Decreased desire for sex is usually coupled with erectile dysfunction. So, you may try 25-50mg of sildenafil (viagra) 1 hour before intercourse. This would help you get a good erection and build your confidence. You may take a test for semen analysis but i think it is not justified at this stage as you are trying since just 1 month. May be after sometime (9-12 months) of regular unprotected sex you can consider a semen analysis, if your wife is still not able to conceive.
Thanks.
Regarding sexual drive and erectile dysfunction
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Stress and anxiety from the strain of daily life and relationships can negatively affect sexual desire. It is a very common cause. Besides that certain medical conditions like obesity, diabetes, raised blood pressure, depression, low testosterone levels etc can adversely affect one's sexual drive too. Alcohol, can negatively affect libido as do certain drugs like antidepressants, medications for hair fall etc. These factors have to be ruled out by appropriate history and lab tests. Healthier lifestyle measures in the form of healthy diet, regular 6-8 hours of sleep, exercise etc is helpful in restoring libido. May be taking a break from work and going for a holiday may also help. Decreased desire for sex is usually coupled with erectile dysfunction. So, you may try 25-50mg of sildenafil (viagra) 1 hour before intercourse. This would help you get a good erection and build your confidence. You may take a test for semen analysis but i think it is not justified at this stage as you are trying since just 1 month. May be after sometime (9-12 months) of regular unprotected sex you can consider a semen analysis, if your wife is still not able to conceive.
Thanks.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Vaishalee Punj
Dear sir
Thank you for reply.
IS 25-50mg of sildenafil (viagra) is safe medicine or some Ayurveda medicine like shilajit nay be taken. During which period intercourse should be done for easy conceiving. Now i feel that children planning should be done in younger ages as our parents suggest.
Doctor usually suggest that it take 06 month to have conceive before that they do not suggest medicine.
Please advise.
Thank you for reply.
IS 25-50mg of sildenafil (viagra) is safe medicine or some Ayurveda medicine like shilajit nay be taken. During which period intercourse should be done for easy conceiving. Now i feel that children planning should be done in younger ages as our parents suggest.
Doctor usually suggest that it take 06 month to have conceive before that they do not suggest medicine.
Please advise.
Brief Answer:
Regarding medications for sexual drive
Detailed Answer:
Hi.
Sildenafil is safe and effective. I am not too sure about ayurvedic medicines. They don't have any proven efficacy. The best time for a female for conceiving is around ovulation i.e mid cycle (10th to 14th day).
Hope this helps
Let me know if you need any more assistance
Regarding medications for sexual drive
Detailed Answer:
Hi.
Sildenafil is safe and effective. I am not too sure about ayurvedic medicines. They don't have any proven efficacy. The best time for a female for conceiving is around ovulation i.e mid cycle (10th to 14th day).
Hope this helps
Let me know if you need any more assistance
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Nagamani Ng
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