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Not Reaching Orgasm, Feeling Uncomfortable, Erection Problem Despite Stimulation, Little Precum. Solution?
Hi there. I am 37 and my husband is 48, we have always had a great sex life. Last year my husband had a one night stand at a work party, which obviously hurt me very much. In saying that we were able to reconnect and move forward.i have had a few problems reaching orgasm and felt unsexy and have felt a little uncomfortable although that has improved considerably and things seemed to be improving. The last month or so h My husband has been able to achieve an erection but not orgasm and also very little precum,, the yesterday despite lots of stimulation he couldn t even get erect. This is worrying us an I hope you can help Jules
Thu, 14 Mar 2013
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This has been almost a year of the episode of one night stand, and your husband recently developed problem of poor libido and inability to achieve erection. I find no correlation in them.
He is 48 and is not able to achieve erection, has poor orgasm or not at all, and also poor libido. I would like to advise you for some basic investigations first in order to rule out any cause.
- Tests for sugar or blood sugar levels. Diabetes and hypertension are important cause of erectile dysfunction.
- Liver function tests. If he is an alcoholic.
- Kidney function tests.
After investigations if come normal, then go for serum testosterone levels. If that come normal then most probably problem is psychological.
Medicines like Sildenafil, Tadalafil, Verdanafil etc are very effective in such situations. But give medicines only after getting him checked with a good physician. These medicines are not given in cases of heart problem.
Talk with him and reassure him, some times due to stress and tension one may fail to get erection so just by reassuring him problem will go away.
Thanks
Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi
Welcome to Health Care Magic
This has been almost a year of the episode of one night stand, and your husband recently developed problem of poor libido and inability to achieve erection. I find no correlation in them.
He is 48 and is not able to achieve erection, has poor orgasm or not at all, and also poor libido. I would like to advise you for some basic investigations first in order to rule out any cause.
- Tests for sugar or blood sugar levels. Diabetes and hypertension are important cause of erectile dysfunction.
- Liver function tests. If he is an alcoholic.
- Kidney function tests.
After investigations if come normal, then go for serum testosterone levels. If that come normal then most probably problem is psychological.
Medicines like Sildenafil, Tadalafil, Verdanafil etc are very effective in such situations. But give medicines only after getting him checked with a good physician. These medicines are not given in cases of heart problem.
Talk with him and reassure him, some times due to stress and tension one may fail to get erection so just by reassuring him problem will go away.
Thanks
Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi
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