My uncle is a alcoholic has been losing bladder and bowel control also liver is damage and has cancer on ear. he is 72 and has drank since he was 19 yrs old broken both leg one has rods other pins & plate also broke his pelvis. will not take care of his self. I have made doctor apt and he has cancelled them. I think he is getting to the end of his life. also his boys will not talk with him