I have a lump on the left side of my lip on my vagina. I always have protected sex so I know its not a disease but its redish in the inside with white around it. I dont if its because I shave and it might be a in growing hair but its very irritating and I just want to get rid of it because I can barely walk and sit and very uncomfortable. What home remedies I can use to help or what over the counter products will help. Pleeeeease help me