I typically experience some pain while having sex and after. Normally it goes away fairly quickly and doesn t really affect me much. Recently I ve been having sex more frequently and the pain has worsened. I haven t had sex involving penetration in a day or so because it is too painful. It s more painful initially standing up/sitting down or walking, but there s constant pain. The opening of my vagina is very swollen and feels sort of hard. I finally got a mirror to look if I could see anything. I have some tearing and there s white goo coming out of the tears. Is this something that will heal on its own, or should I see a doctor?