i just had a 2nd procedure done for bladder cancer. The 1st time it was bad and the tumor was the size of a golf ball. I did the BCG treatments for 6 weeks followed up with the doctor and it came back he says. so a 2nd prosedure was done this past Oct 12th and it was very small and low grade. now he says it back for the 3rd time and wants to see me back in 3 months. meanwhile i can not walk or sit cause it hurts so bad and Ihavent been able to pee or have a bowel movement in over a month. i feel i have to pee every 5 mins and nothing comes out and it is excruciating pain. now i have blotchy bruises on my lower stomach and it still hurts not to be able to pee or poop. went to the er the following wed they said i had uti and sent me home. why is this happening to me and what should i do?please let me know I an about to die