Hi, I m 18 years old and sexually active. Most of the time, my boyfriend and I give each other oral sex and every time I wake up with a swollen throat, a fever and congestion. Whenever I talk to my boyfriend about it, he tells me that he has never experienced those symptoms and it is just me feeling sick. I want to know if I have HIV? I am very scared that it is. Although, I have had this sickness when I had UTI. Thank you so much and I hope to hear from you soon!