hi,my husband and i have been together for 2 years.lately, we are facinga problem, but we haven t seen a doctor yet. we are not able to have sex anymore because every time he starts kissing me or sucking my body, the roof of his mouth ( palatal rugae) starts to swell and get painful in just 10 minutes!! the more he sucks, the more it swells. this makes him uncomfortable which leads him to lose his interest in having sex. he is 25 and he is in a good health. im sure its not the perfume that i use because i always put it on and everything is fine. we dont have any diseases or infections. we dont take any medication. this occurs during foreplay only then it disappears later after we stop. we need help. thanks!