My 58 year old wife is displaying symptoms that are hard to understand.... she is reclusive, shy and possibly bi polar, she is nervous, she can t seem to sit still - always moving her arms, tugging at her shirt (you have to see it to understand). She gets manic and depressed. She has social anxiety and is afraid to see anyone. I told her she needs help but she says nothing is wrong. I m the problem and I m mean and a bully etc. She seems to be in total denial. If she won t see a doctor or professional what choice do I have? I could try to have her committed but that s a final option. Maybe some type of antidepressant would help. I just don t know and I don t have much money right now (until I get paid0.