I recently lost my virginity (two days ago) and everything has been fine up until now. I was fine all day but just a few hours ago I ve been expirencing this constant feeling that I have to urinate, my stomach is bloated( has been since I first had sex), I ve been experiencing slightly painful muscle spasms all over my body ( usually in my arm area), pain in my side, and when I do urinate it is extremely painful in my clitoris. The pain is very sharp and lasts about 5-6 seconds. I m in bed now, I just took some painkillers in hopes that when I go have to urinate again I m not in so much pain. going to the doctor really isn t an option since my parents aren t aware that I am sexually active, and wouldn t be okay with it.