Dear user,
Thanks for writing to HCM.
I can understand that you are going to marry and worried about your future sex life with concern about perceived effects of
masturbation.
Masturbation is a normal part (healthy part) of sexual activity.
Masturbation is similar to sexual intercourse. What penis does in partner's vagina during sexual intercourse, same it does during masturbation in your folded palm!
Sexual intercourse does not cause weakness or any harm, so how masturbation can do!
It is a rampant myth that masturbation causes impotency.
Erectile dysfunction is due to
anxiety about semen loss. (Psychological).
Sex is largely what happens between two ears and not that happens between two legs.
An occasional episode of erectile failure due to functional or situational reasons like
fatigue, tension or own ''pressure to 'perform' rather to enjoy'' is very common. This diminishes arousal level and hence erection too.
This 'failure' of erection makes one feel 'I should perform best' and he 'tries to erect’. This in turn further leads to lack of erection.
I suggest you to see a
psychiatrist before going for marriage.
You can definitely come out of the stress.
Wish you good health.