Hello and welcome to Healthcare Magic. Thanks for your query. From the brief description of your mother s problems, it is possible that she is having some personality issues. This could be stemming from deep rooted past experiences. However, a detailed history and a psychological assessment are necessary to arrive at a definite diagnosis. So, I would suggest that you see a psychiatrist in your place for a detailed evaluation and for further treatment. There are treatments available for your problems - both in the form of psychological therapy, and sometimes medication, which will help her handle such problems. So, please seek professional help at the earliest. Wish you all the best. Regards, Dr. Jonas Sundarakumar Consultant Psychiatrist