I am at very depressed at this moment. My son, our only child, is not perfoming academically, which is causing a lot of tension in our family. We are all in counseling, separately and together. My husband is disabled due to his physical and mental illness, which included a prolonged period of substance abuse. I am 61, in a moderately paying job, low for my profession, and we are totally stressed all the time about money issues. Tomorrow we need to be in a family meeting regarding wheter or not to keep my husband's brother on life support....help....my husband's family is totally dysfunctional...everyone either having dealt with a drug issue or still us using. A cauldron of anger and blame. Help.