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Suggest Treatment To Increase Sex Drive In Women
Hi i have 22 yers, and have begin my sexual life 5years ago, i have just one partner he is my boifrend for almost 6 years, and my problem is that i never have had an orgasm, that make's me depresive and make me feel liake i am not as good as other girls, i don't know what to do, adn what could make this change, we tride alot of things but i steel can get this sensation.
Tue, 18 Nov 2014
Hello,
Thank you for writing to HCM,
I had gone through your query and first i would suggest that dont think like that you are not good as others.
Lack of sex drive may occur because of your thinking or some other reasons because of what you are disturb and cant concentrate on it.
For that you may have to give more time to your sexual life also you may try something which makes you excite about sex.
I would like to suggest here that go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse. Also your vagina will have enough time than that it will ready for intercourse.
And normally it will be helpful for the increasing of sex drive.
Still you are facing the same issue than i would like to suggest to concern a good doctor and check for issue they will suggest you better.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards,
Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
Thank you for writing to HCM,
I had gone through your query and first i would suggest that dont think like that you are not good as others.
Lack of sex drive may occur because of your thinking or some other reasons because of what you are disturb and cant concentrate on it.
For that you may have to give more time to your sexual life also you may try something which makes you excite about sex.
I would like to suggest here that go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse. Also your vagina will have enough time than that it will ready for intercourse.
And normally it will be helpful for the increasing of sex drive.
Still you are facing the same issue than i would like to suggest to concern a good doctor and check for issue they will suggest you better.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards,
Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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HI
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No this is not the problem or disease but this may be due to depression, better to develop good relation with your partner, first you need mentally prepare for the thing, forget about the orgasm no need to pay attention for this else the over consciousness would make you depressed and your mind would be diverted, stop the intercourse for some time be prepared mentally for this, every thing would be fine soon, take care.
Well come to HCM
No this is not the problem or disease but this may be due to depression, better to develop good relation with your partner, first you need mentally prepare for the thing, forget about the orgasm no need to pay attention for this else the over consciousness would make you depressed and your mind would be diverted, stop the intercourse for some time be prepared mentally for this, every thing would be fine soon, take care.
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