I welcome you at HCM and want to assure you that don t worry as everything is going to be fine soon. I have thoroughly gone through your case and can well understand your genuine concerns. No, it doesn t look like herpes as you sexually inactive for so long and also we don t have any past history of herpes in you. It may be due to the vaginal infection that has caused the problems with the thighs too. You need to start with Augmentin and Ibuprofen by mouth. Apply Triple antibiotic cream on thigh infection. Apply vaginal clotrimazole inside the vagina. It will help relieve you from the symptoms once the vaginal fungal infection is gone. Take plenty of fluids and keep your genitalia clean and dry. Don t do vaginal douching. Wash first vagina then anal area when in restrooms. Hope it helps. Feel free to contact me for any further assistance. Regards! Dr. Hanif USA