Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. people around you, if they are your well wishers, could be right on this regard. They could be worried with your behavior and so they are trying to warn you. you should accept the warning sign and do the needful. Talk to your friends and find the wrong side of your behavior. understand it and try to change for better. If need be, please consult a psychologist. Work with him for a positive change. Psychotherapy techniques should suit your requirement. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.