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Suggest Remedy For Sexual Problems In Partners Due To Relationship Issues
I am 37 my husband is 38. Up until 7 months ago he wanted to have sex every night sometimes 2-3 times a day. Even work days. We ll recently a woman has become sexually attracted to me. I am not into women. I showed my husband all the texts she sent me. He was very aroused by this. I was also. He would get very turned on and I must say the sex was amazing!! This has went in for about a month. We ll I was actually considering on doing something with her because he wanted to watch. She would text that she wanted to have sex with him also. He was totally for it. I just want to make him happy. 3 days ago she stated that her husband really wanted to have sex with me while my husband had sex with her. My husband was ok with this too. But when her husband text me on her phone, about stuff he wanted to do to me, my husband totally changed. Calling me a whore and treating me like I cheated. I have done nothing. I was going to block her number but he was so worked up about her. I don t want him going out and getting it somewhere. If he does I wanna be there. Now when he has sex with me he can t stay hard. N just can t cum. I am defiantly not loose. I do not text her and blocked her number. I am very rambunctious in bed. So it s defiantly fun. Or at least I m assuming. I don t know what to do. I feel horrible. I am not eating or sleeping. Please help I need some advise. And no we are not swingers or have done anything with anyone else for the 18 years we ve been together. I was against this whole thing but he really seemed like he wanted to do it:(
1. Marital Counselling is a must for both of you where you will be allowed to talk in presence of both and express your feeling.
2. The marital problems are innumerable. You should use your own judgement, tacts and authority to solve individual problems.
3. Trust js the base of any marriage. Suspicion anout small matters should not be allowed to dominate, if extra marital relation is a problem, extensive persuasion to end such relationship is required from you, consider change of place or city (if possible)
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Suggest Remedy For Sexual Problems In Partners Due To Relationship Issues
1. Marital Counselling is a must for both of you where you will be allowed to talk in presence of both and express your feeling. 2. The marital problems are innumerable. You should use your own judgement, tacts and authority to solve individual problems. 3. Trust js the base of any marriage. Suspicion anout small matters should not be allowed to dominate, if extra marital relation is a problem, extensive persuasion to end such relationship is required from you, consider change of place or city (if possible)