my wife and I are in our mid 60 s, married 42 years. Both educated Catholic in the 1960s. I have had a vasectomy in 1981 and prostate cancer in 2009. I still want to make love but she has limitations too. Thyroid disease, back conditions , is afraid of HRT due to breast cancer concern. Point is we seem to have run out of a meaningful sex life. I ve heard many say its time to just cuddle or embrace, instead If that is true it will be unthinkable for me to let go of. She is prudish about oral sex, fanticies, and the fun-of-it. there has never been another sex partner for either of us nor any sex education. I am truly ata loss here.