I had sex for the first time a few days ago. Me and my husband had intercourse 3 times within 12 hours and were probably rougher than we should have been the first time. It hurt a little bit the next day (mostly just a burning sensation and it kind of hurt to walk) but the day after that felt better. However, I tried to have sex later that day and it was very painful, even when he only partially penetrated me. I ve read some stuff online that said it could be a tear, but it doesn t hurt when I pee as many people who experience vaginal tears seem to indicate. I am wondering if I could have been not lubricated enough since we didn t do much foreplay the second time, but I just want to make sure I can have sex again without significantly injuring my vagina. I also used the Today Sponge, which is a sponge filled with spermicide that you re supposed to leave in at least 6 hours after having sex so I m wondering if the spermicide has anything to do with it? What can I do to have sex again/make it more comfortable?