I am a 14 year old girl and one of the labia minora lips is bigger than the other, it is very dark in colour, and has no feeling. Now the problem is that it sticks out and I'm very uncomfortable with it. It makes me feel awkward and abnormal. When I am scared that boys might feel disgust about it and not want to have sex or touch me. Does this happen a lot, and how does it happen? Is there a way I can shrink it?