so about 3 years ago I went for a routine cleaning of my ear something that I normally do because I have had cholesteatoma removed from my ear about 5 times now my first surgery was at the age of 7 noW I m 21 years old and wall let s see my ears pretty bad not only am i pulling pieces of tissue out of my ear want to go to clean it I have a massive soft spot on the back of my head by my ear just today I got a new bump behind my ear and I can t even touch it if somebody blows on my ear too hard I start to cry cuz it hurts so bad I don t know what to do I m from Missouri and I live in Jersey now and I don t know where to start can someone please help me