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my wife had surgery 30 years ago and our sex life was good for awhile but she is 52 years old now and for the last 10 years or so it is nonexistent. my frustration is increasing and so is my patience. any help in this matter would be greatly appreciated.
I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. If your wife is 52, what is your age? I think you should be at least 55. What is the significance of sex at this age? Your wife must be having so many problems like menopause syndromes. She must be experiencing vaginal pain and lack of sensitivity and sexual pleasure. You should be able to understand her and adjust accordingly. Sex is not essential, but support, love and affection is must at this age. Pleaseknow life here and understand.
If you require more of my services in this regard, please post a direct query and I shall be happy to provide you psychotherapy tips. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.
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Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. If your wife is 52, what is your age? I think you should be at least 55. What is the significance of sex at this age? Your wife must be having so many problems like menopause syndromes. She must be experiencing vaginal pain and lack of sensitivity and sexual pleasure. You should be able to understand her and adjust accordingly. Sex is not essential, but support, love and affection is must at this age. Pleaseknow life here and understand. If you require more of my services in this regard, please post a direct query and I shall be happy to provide you psychotherapy tips. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.