Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. The given information may not be enough to any psychologist / psychiatrist for a remedial advice. Love is not a thing you get while asked. It is an emotion and comes from within. Lot of other emotions are merged into love and is eternal source of happiness. Your husband could also be yearning for love and he could also be telling the same thing as you tell. He is also worried about the financial future. There is nothing wrong to think so. But you should also be able to convince him about the importance of family life. If he is ready to come here, there is nothing wrong in working. You always find a solution that can help your child. Talk to him. Take time. Don;t just see the things with your eyes only. Let yourself be inside his shoes. You shall find a solution. Soon. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition further. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.