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I am 34 yrs old married man and my wife 29.we have been married almost 3yrs. Our problem is we never enjoyed our sex life. My problem is I cannot satisfy partner. When my penis go to her vagina Immediately I am ejaculated. So that she cannot Get the feelings. When my penis in her vagina I cannot hold it too long.I do self ejaculation with watching movies or imaging with my wife.What should I do to make her happy? Because of this she always gets mad because her body gets tired and pain full
Mon, 15 Sep 2014
General & Family Physician, Dr. Nishad BN's Response
Hi Thank you for asking HCM I have gone through your query.You should get rid off anxiety including performance anxiety and stress as those are main offenders in many.You can do squeeze and stop technique.You can stimulate your partner to maximum before getting yourself stimulated.You can deviate your thought to something nonsexual when you about to near ejaculation.You can put on a condom or condom with anesthetic which will decrease the excessive stimulation on penis and there by prevent premature ejaculation.If all these not helping then you can approach a psychiatrist for behavioral therapy and medicinal management like antidepressants. SSRIs like Paroxetine or dapoxetine are usually prescribed for this.Hope this may help you. Let me know if you have any further query.
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How Should Premature Ejaculation Be Treated?
Hi Thank you for asking HCM I have gone through your query.You should get rid off anxiety including performance anxiety and stress as those are main offenders in many.You can do squeeze and stop technique.You can stimulate your partner to maximum before getting yourself stimulated.You can deviate your thought to something nonsexual when you about to near ejaculation.You can put on a condom or condom with anesthetic which will decrease the excessive stimulation on penis and there by prevent premature ejaculation.If all these not helping then you can approach a psychiatrist for behavioral therapy and medicinal management like antidepressants. SSRIs like Paroxetine or dapoxetine are usually prescribed for this.Hope this may help you. Let me know if you have any further query.