My son-in-law, age 39 has a lot of the symptoms associated with ADHD, but not all of them. Generally, he has: Lack of prioritizing Lack of motivation Angry outbursts when things don t go as he expected Often, he calls me from work for something but can t seem to get out what he wants to say. It happens a lot. Inability to make decisions without extensive research into the subject This is definitely not normal behavior and is happening on a daily basis. My daughter has reached out to me to see if we can identify the problem. He is otherwise, intelligent, charming, good provider and this is something he has had most of his adult life and it is getting worse with the added responsibility of marriage and 2 y/o twins. What do you suggest we do? Thanks, Susan