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How Can Severe Depression While In A Distance Relationship With The Spouse Be Managed?

Hey doctor i have question like, I was in relationship with a girl which is my cousin and she is Australian, i tried to go to her to Sydney and i got visa but airport rejected me for passport issue which caused me a shock after 1 year waiting and planning and we changed the plan and i met her overseas abd we got married but she went back to Sydney and we are in distance again and we applied to visa which it takes a lot of time this caused a depression to me I m too attached to.her I dream about her daily i cry a lot i have annoying job and i just want her to be with me, 7 hours the difference between us and family doesn t help us ti to meet more than once i am trying to help myself but i feel so upset and i hate my life and like i wish that i stayed single because this issue is really make me suffer. What should i do to help myself i tried a lot but no benefit she is on my mind all the time. Kindly help
Thu, 25 Oct 2018
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Hello,

From the available description, it appears that you are suffering from adjustment disorder a form of maladjustment with current aspect of life.

I understand that she is away but this was your conscious decision without realising the potential hurdles in a mature way (Visa, passport etc).

The problem can be treated with the use of cognitive behaviour therapy. You are requested to visit a psychologist in your city.

Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further.

Take care

Regards,
Dr Ashok Kumar, Psychiatrist
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How Can Severe Depression While In A Distance Relationship With The Spouse Be Managed?

Hello, From the available description, it appears that you are suffering from adjustment disorder a form of maladjustment with current aspect of life. I understand that she is away but this was your conscious decision without realising the potential hurdles in a mature way (Visa, passport etc). The problem can be treated with the use of cognitive behaviour therapy. You are requested to visit a psychologist in your city. Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further. Take care Regards, Dr Ashok Kumar, Psychiatrist