It s like I can t get fully turned on no matter what I do. I had to get on birth control a few months ago for some serious cramping pains and ever since I had the cramping, I haven t been able to have sex. It always feels too tight and too dry no matter how long we take or what we use. Lube doesn t seem to help. It s just uncomfortable. I don t have emotional issues relationship wise. All these issues seemed to span from a miscarriage I had 7-8 months ago (barely a week along). I ve been to my gyno. He didn t seem worried.