hi, i have trouble cumming either when masterbateing or with a partner, i have never ever cum with a girl and was only last year i had a wankwith my hand,usually end up on my side thrusting against my bed sheets,but lately i havent been able 2 cum with my hand at all,it takes 2 long no matter how hard fast soft gentle i am, in the end i turn over and use the sheets, ive seen therapists about this but they havent been able 2 help, and as a result of menot being able to cum fast i have lost my partner, please can you help me, thanks.