hi sir/mam, i can understand the agony of your little one.from the above mentioned history,i see lack of proper toilet training to the child.stress at home,lack of proper parental care also influence bowel habits in children.dont worry.it doesnt seem to be a twisted bowel.its very much treatable.just have a look at the following simple measures :
1)if you can,just go to her and soothen her worry and try to counsel her regarding bowel habits,balanced diet,
stress management techniques.
2)pain arises mainly due to staining at stools and hard stools.
3)high fiber diet is the crux of treatment.(lot of fruits,veggies,
corn and so on)
4)if the pain in anal area is unbearable,anovate cream is to be applied around the anal area daily twice.
5)tab.
dulcolax one hour before going to sleep can be taken once.with this,the stools softens and bowel gets evacuated.
6)the most important factor is motivation and change of attitude.
hope my answer clears all your doubts.you please take the initiative of getting her counselled by a
psychologist or a hypnotherapist.let her not land in
depression or other psychiatric illnesses.
if she can come online,i'm always ready and pleased to guide her.please convey my message.thank you.take care.bye.