My 2 year old daughter has had a lot of ear infections. She is scheduled to have tubes in and adenoids out. Her doctor says he has never seen a case as bad as hers. He even says that the vessel behind the ear could be enlarged. Because they want the area to appear white, maybe grayish if infected. Hers is black/ purplish. He says he will make a pin hole incision to check for blood before he proceeds with the surgery. Can you tell me anything else about this I'm worried there is more to it that I don't understand.