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Does My Interests State That I Am Gay?

Hi my name is mosa n I'm 17,when I was 14 me and my friend kissed n blowjobed each other everday 4 about a weak,we would go into ur room and close the door then start,I loved it,after a while we stoped until now.I stay in boys hostel n everytime we bath in the shower I would watch other guy's bodies n feel horny,sometimes I wish I could repeat what I did when I was 14,I also have feelings 4 girls,I twise slept with my ex girlfriend.im scared i might be gay,even my actions speaks,many people think Im gay because of the way I walk,talk,sing and live,nowadays I like touching guy's private parts while they are sleeping.please help
Fri, 11 Sep 2015
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Hi, welcome to HCM. Thanks for asking your query here.
Its all in your mind. All kind of sexual exposures are pleasurable. Mutual masturbation and oral gratification is commonly seen in hostels and barracks. Earlier sexual experience does not mean that you have to be like the same. Your personality has not yet matured and you may mould it as per your desire and will power.
If you feel proud of being known as gay then fine, you may continue behaving like this. But if you do not like and want to correct it, you may do it. Take help of your friends. Ask them to make a video of your general activities in classroom and hostel. Later on they should be pointing towards the gestures, body movements and speech etc that makes them to think that you are a gay. You may study your own conduct in videos and try to rectify wherever required. This way you may develop desirable behaviour.

Hope you understand. Be natural.
All the best.
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Does My Interests State That I Am Gay?

Hi, welcome to HCM. Thanks for asking your query here. Its all in your mind. All kind of sexual exposures are pleasurable. Mutual masturbation and oral gratification is commonly seen in hostels and barracks. Earlier sexual experience does not mean that you have to be like the same. Your personality has not yet matured and you may mould it as per your desire and will power. If you feel proud of being known as gay then fine, you may continue behaving like this. But if you do not like and want to correct it, you may do it. Take help of your friends. Ask them to make a video of your general activities in classroom and hostel. Later on they should be pointing towards the gestures, body movements and speech etc that makes them to think that you are a gay. You may study your own conduct in videos and try to rectify wherever required. This way you may develop desirable behaviour. Hope you understand. Be natural. All the best.