Hello dear Understand your concern Tear should be first be examined by the vaginal examination and extent of tear should be confirmed first. Extensive tear and excessive bleeding also require surgery to stitch the teat. For small tear I give you following advice: If you can see the tear then apply the pressor on it as pressure is best therapy to stop the blood. Yes you can use the neosporine ointment to prevent the infections. Take warm water sitz bath with added betadine that is non irritant and helpful in faster healing of tear. Wear pure cotton loose undergarments . Avoid perfumed saop and cosmetics as it cause burning. Apply liquid based lotion that contain vitamin and minerals. And maintain proper pelvic hygiene. And use sex toys with care as it cause mechanical trauma. Hope this may help you Best regards Dr. Sagar