Hi Vishal,
I am a girl. I was also addicted for masterbation. I did that once everyday for 1 month. I felt guilty and found myself bad. Now totally came out of that.
Now If i get that feeling suddenly I will start pray to God. Then I will think about my future husband. He will expect me to be pure and good. So I started living for my future husband. You also can think about future wife and stop this. Great time!!

hey thx dr but i cant control it and i don't know how u came out of that world because u said u had masturbated continuously one month and suddenly how can u control it?? wow its amazing u r really grt but i cant know why i cant control it. first i want to control my mind then i will automatically control it. i thought its just a funny saying that girls will masturbate but know only i came to know its real any way thx for this information also and tell me more tips and help me iam really very very thnk full to u!!!! tak car and u will get a nice future husband

Thanks. I believe in God and I pray everyday. If you pray for 15 mins before you do that, surely you can't do that. And don't be alone when you feel so. Go and watch tv or talk with friends. Firstly I avoided my loneliness, then I went to temples in saturdays. Please do me a favour. Go to temple and pray, not everyday. you can go in the weekends with friends. Surely you will feel your mind changed. And dream about your future life. Do not sleep alone in home. Sleep with your parents. Tell "I must be pure always. I must be a best one to my partner in future" to yourself.
You are good. Because you feel for doing this thing. you want to come out of this. Try to come out fully. Don't watch any bad videos. I went bad because of that only. Initially i started watching bad pictures in net. It ruined me. Now I am matured. I never even like to hear such words.
I am not good in English. Otherwise i would have told you many tips. keep in mind 1)pray 2) no loneliness 3) no bad videos..

And Vishal, I did those things when i was 22. Now I am 23. you are very young. 17 years old. I finished my studies and got job also when i was 22. You must concentrate in your studies. This is the time for your career development. Study well without any bad thoughts. study in front of someone. Otherwise you will miss focus in your studies. All the best.. be good.

thx u very much. for u i will control myself and u helped me lot but it will not gain u in any way but i like the helping mind in ur hrt not all will do like this only ones in thousand will help others and think for others i feel u like my sister who helps me all time whn i feel lonlyness but now she is not with me but u gave me a will power to control thnk u very much and i want u feel u like my sister thnk u very much sister always be in touch
yours bro
vishal

Thanks brother :) All the best for your career. I wrote because I can feel what you feel now. Focus on your future. You will succeed.

Thanks brother. I feel happy. Focus on our studies vishal. You will succeed.
I wrote for you because I can feel how you feel now. All the best ma.

Thanks brother. I am not able to post. i am trying now for the 4th time. I am writing for you because I can feel what you feel now. Again saying, concentrate on your studies. You will do best. I trust you ma.

my replies for you are above..

hmm i always dont want to lose the person who care for me lot vishalhoney_93@yahoo.co.in this is my id sis if u feel to not leave me then message me
waiting for ur reply dr sis

hmmmm... same problem with me... i am 24... i have been doing this since i am 18 and almost 1ce a day.... i too wanna control... else one day i wont get sperm ill get blood out of my pennis... some body help me..

hey boii i know what u mean. i am still addicted and have been for the past year. it feels great right? so what u need to do is stay with ur fam alllll day so u have no distractions, and then go jogging at night so ur superr tired, then shower and fall right asleep when u get home. simple! :) kk bye

hey sis do u remember meeee

one father asked this question

can i teach my son to masturbate ?
i have that response it may help you
feel free to mail me on ashishtheenlightend@gmail.com

masturbation is is an important physical and psychological activity. most of us get to know about this through friends, films and some times in school during sex education.
physical part can be shown to the kid by giving him very decent porn videos to see i am saying very decent because small activity by parents is very meaningful.
we may choose to see the video with the kids but as society we are not evolved enough to that. our reaction will be awkward because sex inhibition starts right from the day we are born. there are 100s of people around the kid to tell him in more than one way how wrong it is to talk, touch or think about sex.
we need to experiment with kids first talking to him as friends who is learning about everything including sex.
most important thing about masturbation is letting him know its a physiological activity like any other, eating, drinking, sneezing, etc. and soon we all need to come to an attitude of "making it a more of physiological and less of mental activity". even asking of this question is coming from the subconscious hitch.
the action of dad teaching his son by doing it , is really a bold and very appropriate , and very rightly said not horrifying once the child is in the right age.
dont forget to share the psychological part of sex and masturbation with your little one, that it is a pressure release at times and when associated with your beloved it gives great mental happiness to both partners.
some times when your partner doesnt feel have sex sharing masturbation with her, i.e. doing masturbation in her presence is even more peaceful and joyous act. if you r not able to do it . talk it out with her.
i am bringing this issue here because many women or men are forced to into sex when mentally not comfortable. thus carrying the anger or guilt post forced activity. god has given a system of using body energy game
to
1.enjoy alone or
2.play together with your beloved and enjoy or
3.create a baby + enjoy, or
4.use this energy into creativity of higher order - "ojas" psychological awareness is build when we learn to enjoy postponing masturbation as much as we enjoy doing it. no judging it wrong or right. this needs very mature and intelligent mind and body . potential of this we all have. i say potential only yet.
haven you seen when you are engaged in some deeply interesting activity masturbation is forgotten . this is not judging but transcendence of masturbation. growth of going beyond in control of body to complete in control of your creative and intelligent mind.

so experiment, talk and listen to your friend called son everything including masturbation and life.

one father asked this question

can i teach my son to masturbate ?
i have that response it may help you
feel free to mail me on ashishtheenlightend@gmail.com

masturbation is is an important physical and psychological activity. most of us get to know about this through friends, films and some times in school during sex education.
physical part can be shown to the kid by giving him very decent porn videos to see i am saying very decent because small activity by parents is very meaningful.
we may choose to see the video with the kids but as society we are not evolved enough to that. our reaction will be awkward because sex inhibition starts right from the day we are born. there are 100s of people around the kid to tell him in more than one way how wrong it is to talk, touch or think about sex.
we need to experiment with kids first talking to him as friends who is learning about everything including sex.
most important thing about masturbation is letting him know its a physiological activity like any other, eating, drinking, sneezing, etc. and soon we all need to come to an attitude of "making it a more of physiological and less of mental activity". even asking of this question is coming from the subconscious hitch.
the action of dad teaching his son by doing it , is really a bold and very appropriate , and very rightly said not horrifying once the child is in the right age.
dont forget to share the psychological part of sex and masturbation with your little one, that it is a pressure release at times and when associated with your beloved it gives great mental happiness to both partners.
some times when your partner doesnt feel have sex sharing masturbation with her, i.e. doing masturbation in her presence is even more peaceful and joyous act. if you r not able to do it . talk it out with her.
i am bringing this issue here because many women or men are forced to into sex when mentally not comfortable. thus carrying the anger or guilt post forced activity. god has given a system of using body energy game
to
1.enjoy alone or
2.play together with your beloved and enjoy or
3.create a baby + enjoy, or
4.use this energy into creativity of higher order - "ojas" psychological awareness is build when we learn to enjoy postponing masturbation as much as we enjoy doing it. no judging it wrong or right. this needs very mature and intelligent mind and body . potential of this we all have. i say potential only yet.
haven you seen when you are engaged in some deeply interesting activity masturbation is forgotten . this is not judging but transcendence of masturbation. growth of going beyond in control of body to complete in control of your creative and intelligent mind.

so experiment, talk and listen to your friend called son everything including masturbation and life.

don't feel guilty about masturbation. It is very normal for young adults to do that. You do grow out of it most of the time. You have raging hormones flowing in your teens and early twenties. A bit of hand service every day is fine. The guilt is more damaging than the masturbating. Don't feel guilty about it. Every one does it.

Dear Vishal,

It is a myth that Masturbation is harmful to your body.

Masturbation is a normal physiological action for both male and female.

There is no side effects for masturbation at all.

Dr A CHAKRAVARTHY +91-9447705077 www.sexual-medicine.org