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Hi. Doctor. Due To Absence Of My Wife. She Went

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Posted on Tue, 4 Jul 2023
Question: hi. doctor.

due to absence of my wife. she went to her home town.

10 days ago i have done a mistake. i went to a sex worker but no sex at all. used condom for blowjob. i touched her vagina with my finger. her liquid touched my fingers. this matters for three minutes. my fingers are fine. no cuts or sores

and finally we ended with masturbation with lip kiss. it last for a minute dont know wether saliva is transferred or not via lip kiss.

in this case any chances of hiv and other issues are there? i am having cold for last 5 days. hope these are not related this exposure.


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Answered by Dr. Sunil Jangid (13 hours later)
Brief Answer:
The chances of HIV in your exposure are very unlikely.

Detailed Answer:
Dear Aasif,

Welcome to Ask a Specialist Service.

Blowjob, kissing or fingering are no risk activities for HIV as such and you had blowjob with condom and there are no cuts or sores on the fingers also so you need not to worry at all because the risk of getting HIV or any other STD is very unlikely or you can say nil.

You have common cold since 5 days which might be due to seasonal change or common viral illness but not related to HIV in any way so just calm down, allay the fear or anxiety and move on in life. if you have any further doubt, feel free to ask me again any time.

Thank You
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vaishalee Punj
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Follow up: Dr. Sunil Jangid (2 hours later)
thank you very much. shall i forget this episode or i need any actions. my doubt is only on kissing and fingering. not other than that. if any small cut in fingering makes any changes? actually i had lip kiss for 10 to 20 seconds. please clear this doubt
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Answered by Dr. Sunil Jangid (8 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Kissing and fingering are no risk activities.

Detailed Answer:
Dear Aasif,

Welcome back and thanks for follow-up.

Kissing and fingering are no risk activities as such and the status of your partner is also unknown that further decreases the risk but still if you want to be sure enough, you can opt for testing with 4th generation HIV Duos test after atleast 2 weeks of exposure. Be relaxed, don't think too much and get back to your routine life.

Thank You
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Nagamani Ng
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Follow up: Dr. Sunil Jangid (5 hours later)
oh okay. tomorrow is fifteenth day. i will check duo test. and send. is that enough?
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Follow up: Dr. Sunil Jangid (0 minute later)
actually i started to have sex with my wife normally too.
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Answered by Dr. Sunil Jangid (10 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
The HIV Duos test can be considered reliable after 2 weeks.

Detailed Answer:
Dear Aasif,

The result of HIV Duos test can be significant after two weeks of exposure so go ahead with the test and get back to me with the result.

Thank You
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Raju A.T
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Follow up: Dr. Sunil Jangid (34 hours later)
tested for hiv duo it came negative, with vdrl too negative. is this enough doctor.
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Answered by Dr. Sunil Jangid (19 hours later)
Brief Answer:
It is good to boost your confidence.

Detailed Answer:
Dear Aasif,

The negative result of HIV Duos test is considered to be reliable and it will give you mental satisfaction also still repeat test one after 4 weeks and one after 90 days may be required to be nearly 100% sure. You can be get relaxed now and move ahead in life.

Thank You
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Hi. Doctor. Due To Absence Of My Wife. She Went

Brief Answer: The chances of HIV in your exposure are very unlikely. Detailed Answer: Dear Aasif, Welcome to Ask a Specialist Service. Blowjob, kissing or fingering are no risk activities for HIV as such and you had blowjob with condom and there are no cuts or sores on the fingers also so you need not to worry at all because the risk of getting HIV or any other STD is very unlikely or you can say nil. You have common cold since 5 days which might be due to seasonal change or common viral illness but not related to HIV in any way so just calm down, allay the fear or anxiety and move on in life. if you have any further doubt, feel free to ask me again any time. Thank You