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What Causes Difficulty In Penetration During Intercourse?
Question: hi doctor,
I feel ashamed to ask but seriously I am not successful in having perfect sex (proper insertion)everytime. Before I used to do it with condom without any difficulty I was able to enter my partner. Now while I am trying without condom I find it bit painful initially later it will be OK and will be successful in insertion and entering my partner. But this happens only sometimes. other times I fail to enter. we both are lubricating well.
Sometimes after getting excited when I feel that I am about to ejaculate I control it so as to enjoy a bit more and delay climax.
By this time will lubrication in my penis gets dried up? but I also notice that my penis won't be so hard after I control ejaculation.
I seriously want to know where I am going wrong.
please teach me how to be successful in entering my partner every time I have sex
I feel ashamed to ask but seriously I am not successful in having perfect sex (proper insertion)everytime. Before I used to do it with condom without any difficulty I was able to enter my partner. Now while I am trying without condom I find it bit painful initially later it will be OK and will be successful in insertion and entering my partner. But this happens only sometimes. other times I fail to enter. we both are lubricating well.
Sometimes after getting excited when I feel that I am about to ejaculate I control it so as to enjoy a bit more and delay climax.
By this time will lubrication in my penis gets dried up? but I also notice that my penis won't be so hard after I control ejaculation.
I seriously want to know where I am going wrong.
please teach me how to be successful in entering my partner every time I have sex
Brief Answer:
Phimosis
Detailed Answer:
Hi
I read your query and I understand your concerns.
Following is my reply
1. Your history of pain and difficulty typically suggest a condition called phimosis.
2. I don't see any problems with you or your penis or your health.
3. Phimosis is presence of little extra skin at tip of penis which causes pain before insertion.
4. Please get examined by a surgeon and undergo surgery for phimosis after examination.
Phimosis
Detailed Answer:
Hi
I read your query and I understand your concerns.
Following is my reply
1. Your history of pain and difficulty typically suggest a condition called phimosis.
2. I don't see any problems with you or your penis or your health.
3. Phimosis is presence of little extra skin at tip of penis which causes pain before insertion.
4. Please get examined by a surgeon and undergo surgery for phimosis after examination.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Actually I have already got circumcised. Wrt my above query will controlling stuff lead to placcid penis?
Brief Answer:
Good technique
Detailed Answer:
Hi
Controlling your ejaculation will not lead to flacid penis. Its a good and recommended technique to prevent premature ejaculation. Please continue doing it.
Good technique
Detailed Answer:
Hi
Controlling your ejaculation will not lead to flacid penis. Its a good and recommended technique to prevent premature ejaculation. Please continue doing it.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
I agree but where I am going wrong? y I am unsuccessful? before for around 2 months was successful. sometimes in between flop. pls suggest me technique to be successful in entering my partner and enjoy sex and satisfy her
Brief Answer:
Stress
Detailed Answer:
Hi
Stress leads to such episodes. Check if you have pressure related to work , personal life which have increased recently.
These are the possibilities which have lead to auch episodes.
Stress
Detailed Answer:
Hi
Stress leads to such episodes. Check if you have pressure related to work , personal life which have increased recently.
These are the possibilities which have lead to auch episodes.
Note: For further guidance on mental health, Click here.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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