Greetings,my name is madelein and I m 29 years old turning 30 in a few months and I have 4 children.When I fell pregnant with my 3rd child I started getting pain during intercourse on my right side,it continued throughout the pregnancy and after a gave birth and the same with my 4th child,its like a sharp pain that affects my thigh muscles whenever it is fast and deep intercourse.Sometimes I feel the pain and when I press on it,it is a wind and then it comes out and the pain is gone again,I have been diagnosed with irritable bowl syndrome and anemia.I also got my period last month the 24th till the 27th I get it 3 days every month today is the 3rd of the next month and I got my period yesterday again.Could this be a matter of concern?I also experience paralyses every month before and after my period that feels like a pressure up my back into my head that sometimes feel like I can t wake up because the paralyses happens during falling asleep or when I m asleep.Its like something in my head is pressing together that feels as if it wants to burst and sometimes gives this ringing sound or a sound that s whistling.It feels like I m awake and then discover I m sleeping and need to get back to wake myself when I wake up I feel numb and want to fall asleep again.Its like I can t move but then I get myself to get up to walk off the numbness.