You have mentioned of incontinence
and stool and also always cystitis
condition. there are so many causes if incontinence of urination - may be neurogenic, problem in spinal cord
so bladder sphincter
is not capable to hold urine. Chronic cystitis also one cause of incontinence urination. It is needed to find out what causes chronic cystitis. Is there any obstruction in urinary tract that increases the residual urine volume? It is needed detail report to find out the exact cause. If you have MRI of spine and USG or CT scan of abdomen please send.