You have mentioned of
incontinence of
urination and stool and also always
cystitis condition. there are so many causes if incontinence of urination - may be neurogenic, problem in
spinal cord so bladder
sphincter is not capable to hold urine. Chronic cystitis also one cause of incontinence urination. It is needed to find out what causes chronic cystitis. Is there any obstruction in urinary tract that increases the residual urine volume? It is needed detail report to find out the exact cause. If you have MRI of spine and USG or CT scan of abdomen please send.