From your history, it seems that you are having a Bartholin's abscess
. Bartholin's gland is situated under the labia majora
and is very vulnerable to get infected, usually by Sexually transmitted infections like Chlamydia or Gonorrhoea
. This infection soon heads towards Bartholin's abscess.
Bartholin's abscess needs to be incised and its edges need to be marsupialized lest the recurrence. Also you will need to undergo an antibiotics course. Hence, please do not puncture it with any needle. By such action the abscess will recur and moreover, you may introduce very serious infection like Tetanus
Please report to a Gynaecologist for incision, drainage
and marsupialization. Both the partners need to undergo treatment.
I hope this helps you.
Dr. Nishikant Shrotri