I practice in India and many women in this country face similar problems. Abortion
is permitted in India under specific circumstances for example failure of contraception
. However, abortion laws vary in different countries.
I would suggest you consult your gynecologist and ask specific reasons for the disagreement.
However, it is best to continue pregnancy
as it has to come at some point of time in life.
Also if at all you do plan to discontinue the pregnancy I strongly recommend that you do it under direct supervision of an experienced gynecologist.