Dear Respected Doctor Monnica,
My daughter got married in May 2012 (arranged Marriage). She had told couple of times that she is not liking the boy and her reasons were not convincing and hence we rejected it. Now till date she has no physical relation with her husband and says that when he comes near her, she gets mad and wants to run away. Further she has developed strong hatred for him. We know that the boy is good and decent. He is also surprised by her actions and feels that there must be some mental problem with her like Borderline Personality disorder(BPD). We are confused and in a state of shock. Also she says when she was young - 5-6 years, she was abused by a male relative, which we came to know now only. We are not sure if this is true or not.. Pl. guide us.