Hi there ~
Your daughter seems to have what we commonly call as oppositional defiant disorder
or ODD. It is common and it might become less with time, however it might be a good idea to give her medications and have her be seen in therapy for family sessions so that she learns to listen to parental figures including teachers. Making friends will be hard for such children and with comorbid ADD it is even harder to find and make friends. I am hoping that her ADD is adequately treated and it is under control.
I hope this advice helped. Please have her be seen by an expert child psychiatrist
as soon as possible. Take care and have a nice day !